Showing posts with label Grandparenting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Grandparenting. Show all posts

Friday, September 7, 2012

Are You Focused on Your Legend or His Legacy?


Dr. Chuck Stecker

Within moments after her birth in a Denver hospital on March 3, 1998, I held in my arms my first grandchild. To say that there was something supernatural about that moment would understate the reality. 

It’s been said that a child of your child is twice  your child, and now I understand why. In the weeks preceding and the days following the birth of Eliana Blair Cassel, God gave me incredible clarity about what’s important to pass on through the generations. I was particularly struck by Psalm 78:5–7:



"He decreed statutes for Jacob and established the law in Israel, which he commanded our forefathers to teach their children, so the next generation would know them, even the children yet to be born, and they in turn would tell their children. Then they would put their trust in God and would not forget his deeds but would keep his commands."


As I read those verses, it was as if neon lights began blinking and flashing, and bells and whistles went off. Everything in my being seemed to cry out, “This is what it means to leave a godly legacy!” I declared Psalm 78:5–7 to be my “legacy verses” that moment and determined I would teach about them whenever I had the opportunity.


Notice the number of generations mentioned here in just three verses. The process begins with the law given to Israel (Jacob) through Moses (generation one); Israel would teach their children (generation two), and those children would then teach the next generation—”the children yet to be born” (generation three), who would in turn teach their children (generation four).


Notice also that God spoke three things to be taught through the generations—to trust, remember, and obey the living God. I realized that as much as dads want to control the destiny of their children (I have jokingly said on many occasions that my grandchildren will live in Denver, and I don’t care where their parents live), I began to understand in that final verse exactly what comprises the legacy of Almighty God in our lives, our children’s lives, and our children’s children’s lives.

Now God has blessed Billie and I with four amazing grandchildren. After Ellie, now a high school freshman, came Hannah - followed by Makayla and our first grandson, Liam.


Sunday is Grandparents' Day of Prayer. In addition to praying for our four grandchildren, Billie and I will be praying for any other grandchildren God may entrust to us and for our grandchildren's children as well.


In other words, "Even children yet to be born." Now, that is worth praying for.


It is not too late to join Grandparents around the world praying for our grandchildren. Check out Grandparents' Day of Prayer

 (Excerpted from Men of Honor Women of Virtue, Seismic Publishing Group, 2010, p.179







Wednesday, September 5, 2012


Grandparents' Day of Prayer

Dr. Chuck Stecker


            It is a day unlike the other holidays designed to honor fathers, mothers veterans or some other part of our society. It is a day to rally Grandparents to pray for their grandchildren and, in reality, as grandparents to pray for grandkids across the nation and around the world.            
            
            Grandparents' Day of Prayer is being championed by our good friend Cavin Harper and the ChristianGrandparenting Network.

             This year the day is September 9th.  Grandparents around the world are being called to prayed specifically for our grandchildren.

             "Christian Grandparenting Network is asking grandparents all over the world to unite in prayer for their grandchildren on Sunday, September 9, 2012. This date is the official United States National Grandparents Day designated by a Senate proclamation signed by President Jimmy Carter in 1978."

             That is a phenomenal idea. You do not have to be from a "blue state" or a "red state." It does not matter which church you attend or how you feel about the political issues being hammered by the political parties.


            It is very simple to sign up, and they are not going to bombard you with requests for donations or fill your "inbox" with more offers than we can imagine.

             One of the first things you will be offered, without charge is a list of Scriptures to pray for your grandchildren. In addition to the list of Scriptures, there is a simple Prayer guide that has no denominational leanings.

             Let's get onboard with this idea and fill the heavenly airwaves with prayers for our grandchildren.

 Who is joining us in praying for our grandchildren and grandchildren around the world?






Monday, September 3, 2012

Never Babysit Your Grandkids


Dr. Chuck Stecker




I am always amused when I hear a dad say that he is busy or cannot do something because he has to babysit his kids. Dads do not babysit their own kids. They are dads. They have the amazing privilege of being entrusted by God with His children. Dads do not babysit their own sons and daughters.

The same applies to Grandparents.  
Never, Never Never - Just babysit your grandkids.

When our first grandchild, Ellie, was born, I wasn't sure if I would be able to control myself. Amazing is one of the greatest understatements ever heard regarding grandchildren.

From the first moment, my wife and I were trusted to have our grandkids by ourselves, we knew our lives would never be the same again.

Grandparenting is a far too important assignment from God to be simply relegated to being an "hourly hired person."

From the beginning, we told our daughter to never ask us to babysit our own grandkids. If she needed (just) a babysitter, she could call one of the teenage girls whose number she kept on her refrigerator.

Every moment with Grandchildren must be viewed as an investment. Consider "The Parable of the Talents" in Mathew 25:14. In everything God entrusts to us, he expects us to invest. That parable is not limited to finances. The reality is that finances are perhaps the least of the issues. God expects us to invest in His people. God expects each of us to invest in our family.

As I write this blog, I am still buzzing. This past weekend, all our kids and grandkids were at our home and we had an incredible time together.

To clarify the original statement - Never Never Babysit your Grandkids - We want our grandkids with us as much as we possibly can have them. When they are with us, the job is far too important to be degraded and called babysitting. That is not going to happen.

September 9th is Grandparents' Day of Prayer. One of the best resources you can plug into is our good friend, Cavin Harper's grandparenting ministry. Check out his website at http://www.christiangrandparenting.net/day-of-prayer

Remember Never Never (JUST) Babysit Your Grandkids.